They say when you are hungry, everything tastes good and if you a re full, even honey will be loathsome. I was advised by someone never go shopping in the supermarket when you are hungry, you will buy way more than what you require. A great spread of smorgasbord for that matter, when you are hungry, you may put too much on your plate than you can handle.
When you are desperate to sell a property, you may end up selling it at a much lower value to help you solve your financial problem. But the issue here is never to respond immediately to a stimulus of dire need. Selling a house to pay your debts or having a meal to satisfy your hunger maybe a more straightforward issue. There is something more than a need for a partner that drives a man or woman to be desperate.
If you feel lonely and have had no relationship and suddenly one day you crave for a relationship and desperately go out to look for that ideal partner, be wary, it could be a deeper issue.
If the person rejects you or even if the relationship works out you will be wondering why did you even get into this relationship in the first place. You may not even want that person. The reason is, that the deeper issue is not about being lonely and needing a partner, it could be a need for identity.
When someone loves you, the feelings of being wanted feels great. So one pursues a relationship to fill the void in his or her identity. This may go back to the root of being rejected as a child or parent not showing enough love or acceptance.
You will always go around finding a relationship to fill that need to be wanted. The right approach is it step back and ask yourself why are you feeling this way? =)
